This year, turning 41 wasn’t just another birthday. It was an initiation. I’m talking a full-on reboot — starting with an outpouring of love from my friends who had my day planned down to the last detail. They kept the whole thing a surprise, from a 90-minute massage that erased months of tension to dinner reservations at that restaurant I’ve been trying to get into. My heart was so full that day, but looking back, this milestone was just the beginning of a year-long journey that would change me in ways I never imagined.
Welcome to 41 — my year of rebranding, rethinking, and radical self-love.
Step One: Rebranding My Purpose
At the heart of this year stands Rest Mama Inc., my mission-driven organization. Founding it was about so much more than starting a non-profit; it was about grounding myself in something deeply meaningful. I wanted to build a space for mothers to reclaim balance, find rest, and rediscover joy — but I soon realized I needed this journey as much as anyone else. Through Rest Mama Inc., I’ve come to understand that rest isn’t a luxury; it’s survival. It’s healing. It’s growth.
And the rebrand? It’s not just about changing what I do but about transforming who I am, from within.
Step Two: The Uncomfortable Work of Rebranding Myself
Rebranding my life meant facing some uncomfortable truths. For years, I had poured everything into my kids, rebuilt after my divorce, and hustled hard in my career. But somewhere along the way, I lost a piece of myself. I thought I was just fine — but deep down, I knew I was coasting. Turning 41 has been about digging deep and getting real with myself. I’m building on the strong, driven woman I’ve always been, but I’m also rediscovering parts of me I thought I’d outgrown.
And yes, it’s been tough. Change is always uncomfortable, especially the kind of inner work that forces you out of the familiar and into new territory. But I’m learning that discomfort is where real growth begins.
Step Three: Falling in Love with Myself All Over Again
Self-love isn’t a new concept, but let’s be real — it’s one thing to say “love yourself” and another to actually do it. For too long, I tied my worth to what I could do for others — my kids, clients, and community. This year, though, I’ve learned that I’m enough just as I am. I don’t have to do or be anything extra to be valuable. Loving myself, not as a mom or a businesswoman, but as *me* has been so freeing.
Rest Mama Inc. has taught me that rest isn’t just about downtime; it’s about creating space to reconnect with myself. This year, I’m giving myself permission to embrace that truth — to rest, to love myself fiercely, and to accept that I am more than enough.
Step Four: Realizing My Purpose (and Loving It)
The beauty of purpose is that it isn’t static; it grows as we do. My purpose is rooted in supporting mothers, helping them reclaim balance and mental clarity. But this year, that purpose has expanded. My work is no longer just a job or even a business; it’s a calling. I’m showing up for others in a way that fills me up too. Purpose has become less about “doing” and more about “being” — it’s who I am and how I want to impact the world.
Step Five: Opening My Heart to Love Again
And here’s the surprise twist — somewhere along this journey, I’ve opened my heart to the idea of finding love again. But this time, it’s different. I’m not looking for someone to complete me; I’m already whole. I want someone who complements me, who respects the journey I’m on, and who’s ready to grow alongside me. And here’s the exciting part — I think I may have found this person. It’s all baby steps and deep breaths right now, but who knows? Maybe in a few blog posts, I’ll be sharing an engagement announcement. I feel like I’m getting close to marriage, but I knew I needed to handle my own journey first.
The search for “my person” is about finding someone who understands this rebrand and is ready to walk this path with me. Love isn’t a distraction or something to “fit in”; it’s a connection, a partnership that adds even more richness to my life.
Moving Forward: Embracing Each Day with Purpose & Passion
Turning 41 has been a powerful journey of growth, rebranding, and renewal. I’ve learned that real change doesn’t come from reinventing the outside; it comes from transforming within. It’s the year of saying yes to myself, to rest, to self-love, to purpose, and, yes, to the possibility of love.
Here’s to 41 — my year of rediscovery, resilience, and stepping fully into my true self. Through Rest Mama Inc., I hope to continue sharing this journey with other women, showing them that rebranding isn’t just for businesses; it’s for all of us who are ready to live with intention and heart.